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A gentle, intentional space for connection

The Neurodiverse City

The Neurodiverse City is a virtual space created for neurodivergent adults who want connection to feel calm, clear, and human.
 

This is a place for friendship, dating, or simply being around others who understand. Some members browse and engage on their own, while others opt into occasional curated introductions or monthly tools to support understanding and connection. There is no single right way to be here.

What Neurodiverse City is

The Neurodiverse City is an online community rooted in consent, clarity, and respect. It offers a safe alternative to dating apps or unstructured social spaces that can feel overwhelming.

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Here, you’ll find a space where:

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  • Pacing matters

  • Boundaries are respected

  • Communication differences are expected

  • Participation is always a choice
     

There is no pressure to perform, impress, or move faster than feels right.

Who This Space Is For

Neurodiverse City may feel like a good fit if you:

  • Want connection that feels intentional and human

  • Appreciate clear expectations and consent

  • Feel burned out by dating apps or social pressure

  • Are neurodivergent, sensitive, or communication-conscious

  • Prefer structure and predictability in social spaces

  • Want the option of friendship or dating without urgency

  • Value slower pacing and thoughtful interaction

You do not need to be outgoing, confident, or “good at dating” to be here.

Ways to Participate:

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Free Community

Free

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  • Access announcements & Guidelines

  • Participate in optional discussion threads or occasional low-pressure events

  • Explore & engage at your own pace
     

Best if you want to begin connecting and learning without commitment or pressure

 

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Membership

$50/month- COMING SOON

  • Everything in the Free Community

  • Opportunities for curated introductions: connect with other members seeking friendship or dating, guided thoughtfully by a facilitator (matches not guaranteed)

  • Monthly virtual mixers to meet and connect with other members in a relaxed, low-pressure setting

  • Monthly neurodivergent-affirming tool to support connection and growth

 

Best if you want extra support, opportunities for connection, and monthly interactive events— all without pressure or guarantees.

Connection Matching Within Neurodiverse City

As part of the membership, members may have the opportunity to be thoughtfully introduced to others seeking friendship or dating. These introductions are a potential outcome, not guaranteed, and are guided by a facilitator to align with members’ preferences and comfort.

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Matching considers:
 

  • Communication preferences

  • Social energy and pacing

  • Boundaries and support needs

  • Shared interests and values
     

Key Points:

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  • ​Matching is optional, not required to participate in the community

  • Introductions are opportunities, not guarantees

  • The focus is on support, consent and respectful connection

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Types of Connection Available

Applicants may request support with:

Friendship

Dating matching

Both friendship and dating

The application focuses primarily on multiple-choice questions and does not require long written responses.

Optional Facilitated Introduction Coaching Session

(Premium Add-On)

For members or non-members who want personalized support for introductions, we offer a premium coaching session:​

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  • Price: $300 per hour

  • A virtual facilitator leads the first meeting with a match (could be a friend date or a romantic date)

  • Includes planning a fun virtual icebreaker activity or game to make introductions easier and more comfortable

  • Designed to reduce overwhelm, guide conversation, and help participants feel confident

  • ​Can be booked for a match made through the membership or someone found independently​

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This service is ideal for anyone who finds initial introductions stressful, wants guidance navigating conversation, or would like a structured, supported way to meet someone new.

Meet your facilitator

Alex is the founder of Neurodiverse City Connection and a neurodiversity-affirming coach. She supports neurodivergent adults navigating communication, boundaries, and meaningful connections.

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Through the membership, Alex offers optional curated introductions, helping members explore friendship or dating opportunities thoughtfully and at their own pace.

Optional facilitation support

For those who want extra guidance, Alex provides Facilitated Introduction Coaching—personalized virtual sessions designed to:

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  • Reduce overwhelm during first meetings

  • Plan fun icebreaker activities or games

  • Guide conversation and help participants feel confident

  • Support both friendship and first-date scenarios

 

Alex’s approach centers consent, clarity, pacing, and respect, creating space for connection to unfold naturally without pressure or expectation.

Alexandra Lioznov

How the process works

Join the Neurodiverse City Community

Participate at your own pace

Explore connection in the way that feels right

Choose more structure if and when you want it

There is no obligation to pursue matching in order to participate.

Join Neurodiverse City

If you are looking for connection that feels slower, more thoughtful, and more human, Neurodiverse City offers a place to begin.

Safety and Responsibility

To maintain clear, ethical boundaries and a safe environment:

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  • Participation is at your own discretion: Members are responsible for their own safety, boundaries, and decisions.

  • No guarantees: Membership and introductions provide opportunities, not assured outcomes.

  • Optional coaching: Facilitated Introduction Coaching provides support and guidance, but participants are ultimately responsible for their own interactions and comfort.

  • Privacy and respect: Members are expected to respect boundaries and communication preferences of others.

  • No background checks: Neurodiverse City Connection does not conduct background checks on members.

 

Clear expectations and consent are central to creating safer, supportive, and respectful experiences.

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